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16 Octagon™ behavioral questionnaire

               Trust / Control



                Score       Characteristics                           Tips



                0 - 30      You need to be in control and working     Ask others when they think they
                            with  others  can  be  challenging  as    need  to  update  you  (as  opposed
                            you believe that no-one can do            to you setting the review points).
                            things as well as you. You tend to        Few  people  like  having  someone
                            be  distrustful  of  people’s  motives    monitoring them.
                            and believe that your trust must be
                            earned.




                31 - 60     You  do  not  naturally  trust  people    When a colleague or buyer has said
                            at first meeting – they need to win       they will do something, do not go
                            your trust. You want to be present        back to check on progress – wait
                            in most meetings and want to see          until they contact you. People do
                            the  notes  for  meetings  that  you      not like to be monitored, and they
                            cannot attend. You frequently check       do like to be trusted.
                            that  people are doing what they
                            said they would do.



                61 - 80     You’re  not  a  naturally  trusting       Be  more  prepared  to  trust  people
                            person, but you’re prepared to trust      to do the things they say they will
                            others once they’ve proven that they      do,  since  people  like  to  work  with
                            can be trusted. You have a tendency       people who trust them. If things do
                            to check on people to see if they’ve      not work out the way you’d hoped,
                            done the things they’ve committed         be prepared to explore the reasons
                            to, as opposed to trusting that they      objectively,  without  allowing  your
                            will do the things they’ve said.          disappointment to impact.



                81 - 100    You trust your own abilities and can      Be more prepared to trust others. If
                            trust  others,  though  you  tend  to     you trust them, they are more likely
                            look for proof of capability or track     to trust you. Where someone does
                            record before placing your trust.         not live up to your trust, assess the
                                                                      reasons  for  the  failure  objectively,
                                                                      leaving   aside   your   sense    of
                                                                      disappointment.




                101 - 120   Your starting position is to trust        Look    for   ways     to   actively
                            others and you expect that people         communicate that you trust others,
                            will deliver on their commitments.        since people tend to trust people
                                                                      who  trust them. For  example, in
                                                                      team  situations,  make  a  point  of
                                                                      seeking the ideas of others and look
                                                                      for others to take initiatives forward.
                                                                      Also remember to ask where they
                                                                      might need help from you.





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