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Score       Characteristics                           Tips


                121 - 150   You like to make sure that everyone       Before  you  help  others,  pause  to
                            around you is OK and you want to          consider  the  pros  and  cons.  What
                            be  everyone’s  friend.  Buyers  will     might be the positive and negative
                            see you as being on their side.           impact, not only on the other party,
                            On the minus side, you may avoid          but  on  you  and  on  your  team  /
                            confrontations and have a tendency        organization. Let others  help you
                            to ignore bad news. Also, there is a      out on occasion, even though you
                            risk that you may undermine your          do not think it is necessary.
                            own organization’s needs to satisfy
                            the needs of buyers.

                151 - 180   To see other people happy is your         Be prepared to say no - not only to
                            biggest  reward.  Money  is not           others, but also to yourself - given
                            important to you. The  big risk  is       that your instinct is always to help.
                            that you are so focused on looking        Set aside time in your diary to look
                            after the needs of others that you        after  yourself  and  do  things  that
                            do not look after your own needs or       you enjoy.
                            those  of  your  organization.  Buyers
                            will  see you  going  the extra mile
                            for  them,  but  they  may  also  take
                            advantage of your generosity.



                Self score:               Desired score:                 By when:



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                         A person scoring low in Your needs / My needs would put their own interest
                         and well-being before others and would be susceptible to self-serving bias,
                         attributing any success to their actions and any failure to the actions of others.

                         For more on cognitive biases and how to mitigate their impact, see section 6.






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