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again. That person can be exhibiting our own mistakes and weaknesses to

unconscious passive aggressive behavior, each other and make a sincere effort
and you are not going to change that to change. It is helpful if we can both
person. They have to do their own work recognize when we are polarizing with

and we can’t save or fix people. They have each other. When partners start acting
to want to look at themselves and their out two huge extremes, it can become

own behavior. very uncomfortable and does not work.
It’s balance that works. Talk to your
There are also other personality partner. Tell them you want to meet

disorders, and those too can be difficult them halfway.
to deal with when an individual has

not yet developed a strong enough ego. A friend told me a story last week about
Jung says we cannot admit fault and how she meets a previous boyfriend once
give up our prideful ego responses to a year for lunch and that he recently told

confrontation when we have a weak her that She was the one that got away,
ego. It takes ego strength to muster and he could never forget her. They are

up the courage to vulnerably admit both, of course, married to two imperfect

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