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“Do you have a question?” Ron asked, reading Dan’s nonverbal -- inquisitive expression.

“Yes Ron. I do. What is the difference between Mindful versus Positive Attitude?”

“Good question Dan. Mindful attitude is neither positive nor negative; it is the attitude of

awareness, of thoughtfulness, of empathy, of compassion. It is a higher level than positive

attitude.”

“Let us take an example that may be nearer home for you. Few weeks back when you came

to me with your request, I had 3 options. I could have said sorry Dan I will not be able to help

you. Your boss, Joe Bird, is the best person to do it. What would be that attitude?”

“I think, it would have been Negative attitude Ron.”

“Absolutely. Alternatively, I could have answered your question within an hour in our first

meeting. You may not have agreed with my answer, but you would have found it to be honest,

reasonable, and partly convincing. How would you describe this attitude?”

Dan thought for a while and as understanding dawned on him, he slowly answered.

“Positive attitude. Thanks Ron I got it.”

“The way you have treated me in the past few weeks is because of your Mindful Attitude.

I understand the difference now and it is stark!” said Dan with thankfulness in his voice and

nonverbals.

“Please don’t misunderstand me. I would most likely never take the first option with

anyone. But I would also not take the last option with everyone. I chose to do it for you with

an awareness and careful thought.”