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2                                                                                                                                      Chapter 3 Define





                                                                                                                         Findings Analysis & Synthesis







                    Introverts
                                                                                                                   Key Themes on Pockets of Purpose

                    Loneliness can be triggered by various events such as: experiencing                            Using  Constant  Comparative  analysis  method,  FIVE  (5)  Key
                    the loss of a loved one or moving to a new county. Respondents in                              Themes  on  purpose  were  birthed.  1)  Building  Meaningful
                    this study shared the same triggers but an interesting discovery is                            Connections that EMPOWER: Acknowledged for life experiences
                    the fact that personality types affect how one cope with loneliness. It                        or  seen  as  an  equal  e.g.  grandparenting,  nourishing  others  –
                    suggests  that  introverts  are  more  prone  to  loneliness/isolation                         cooking/baking,  spontaneous  altruism,  buddying-up.  2)
                    because  relative  to  their  extrovert  counterparts,  their  coping                          Teaching  Knowledge/Expertise/Skills  3)  Sharing  hobbies/arts  4)
                    behaviour  when  loneliness  triggers  makes  them  socially  isolate                          Learning 5) Sharing Stories: Life Lessons/knowledge.
                    more. Majority who are self-proclaimed introverts reported feeling
                    lonelier  relative  to  the  social  extroverts  and  the  in-betweens.  This
                    was noted particularly amongst those with less skills or less involved                         Ageism hinders older adults from
                    with any passion/hobby/skill .  They also prefer one-on-one / duo or
                    smaller groups.                                                                                engaging in social and volunteer groups
       DEFINE            COMMON THEMES on NEGATIVE INTERACTIONS,                                                   The two main barriers for not engaging with older adult services
                                                                                                                   tailored for them


                                                                                                                   are a) social bias associated to being old is extended to elderly
                                    FRUSTRATIONS & CHALLENGES
                                                                                                                   groups - held negative perceptions about older people – weak,


                      1. Helping others fulfills them but when & where these                                       vulnerable, needing support. Older adults avoid being stigmatized
                                                                                                                   under this label. b) social expectations that come with being a
                          opportunities happen are INCONSISTENT, UNPREDICTABLE                                     group member e.g. expectations on commitments. Hence, more
                          or may only happen once a year  (special occasions)                                      than just service awareness itself being an issue, a bigger societal
                                                                                                                   context is at play.
                      2.   Being deemed demanding on existing relationships
                             •    Introverts find it hard to connect with new people.                              Social group leaders have likewise pinned down the issue of social
                                  They YEARN TO CONNECT but DON’T HAVE a WIDE                                      bias  but  acknowledge  that  it  is  not  within  their  competence  to
                                  network of friends.                                                              address it at this time.  Other issues raised were low awareness of
                                                                                                                   their   organization  and  activities  that  may  not  be  appealing  to
                      3.   Have nothing to look forward to mindset.                                                other older adult types e.g. gardening.

                      4.   Yearning to grandparent more (cannot grandparent as much
                           as they want to because of distance and limited time with
                           kids)


                      5.   Not seen / heard/ does not matter
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