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         online. Any type of text message                         Learn
         can  easily  be misinterpreted.
         Therefore,  it’s vital  for us to
         make  sure we are  expressing
         respect in our words.                                    from your

         When communicating  online,
         all you need to focus on is                              mistakes
         writing kind, respectful things.   ISHIMWE Claudine, S3E
         Writing  a  joke  can  be  fun
         but it’s hard to communicate
         sarcasm through text.                       aking   mistakes   who need to know, apologize,
                                                     can be a valuable   and tell them that you’re
         Don’t say anything online you               learning  oppor-   working on a solution.
         would not say in real life. Use  Mtunity. You can get
         kind  speech  when talking  to    lessons from your mistakes   Saying “sorry” takes courage,
         others  online.  If you need  to   that  can  help  you  improve   but it’s far better to come clean
         have a serious  conversation      your  skills  and  expand  your   than to hide your error or, worse,
         meet in person. Only use online   knowledge.                   to blame others for it. In the long
         communication  for light,  fun                                 run, people will remember your
         conversations.                    When we don’t learn from     courage and integrity long after
                                           our  mistakes,  we  inflict   they’ve forgotten the original
         Anything we write online          unnecessary    stress   on   mistake.  If,  however,  they  hear
         has the potential  to be read     ourselves and on others,     of it from another source, your
         by anyone. Giving respect         and we risk losing people’s   reputation  will  suffer  and  you
         is  a  powerful  tool.  Use  it  to   confidence  and  trust  in  us.   may not get another opportunity
         improve relationships  around     Making a mistake” is not     to learn.
         you on and offline today.         the  same  thing  as  “failing.”
                                           A  failure  is  the  result  of  a   2. REFRAME THE ERROR
         Respect yourself, respect others   wrong action, whereas a
         and they will respect you!        mistake usually is the wrong   How you view your mistakes
         Incorporating respect into our    action. So, when you make a   determines the way that you
         daily lives not only benefits us   mistake, you can learn from   react to them, and what you do
         personally but also contributes   it and fix it, whereas you can   next. When you’ve acknowledged
         to a more harmonious and          only learn from a failure.   your mistake, think about what
         compassionate society. Respect                                 you could do to prevent it from
         units us in our shared humanity.  There  are  five  steps  to   happening again.
         ________________________          help you to learn from your
         www.escapingthe.com               mistakes, and to put what    Your  mindset  plays  a  signifi-
                                           you discover into practice.  cant role in how you view your
                                                                        mistakes and, importantly, in
                 “Discipline               1. OWN YOUR                  how you react to them.
                 is the bridge                MISTAKES                  If you have a “growth” mindset,
              between goals and                                         you likely see mistakes as an
              accomplishment.”             You can’t learn anything     opportunity to improve, and
                                           from a mistake until you
                                           admit  that  you’ve  made  it.   not as something that you are
                  _Jim Rohn                So, take a deep breath and   doomed to repeat because your
                                           admit to yours, and then take   mindset is “fixed” on the belief
                                           ownership of it. Inform those   that you can’t improve.
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