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views  the  self-image  and  the  evaluations  or  judgments  he  or

            she makes about it form the person’s self-esteem.


                He  added  that  self-esteem  is a set of  attitudes and beliefs

            that a person brings with him or herself when facing the world.


            It includes beliefs as to whether he or she can expect success or

            failure, how much effort should be put forth, whether failure at

            a  task  will  hurt  and  whether  he  or  she  will  become  more


            capable  as  a  result  of  different  experiences.  In  psychological

            terms,  self-esteem  provides  a  mental  set  that  prepares  the


            person  to  respond  according  to  expectations  of  success,

            acceptance, and personal strength (Coopersmith: 2005)


            2.   Types of Self-Esteem

                There are three basic types of self-esteem; they are low self


            esteem, high self esteem and healthy self esteem.

                a.  Low Self-Esteem

                Low  self-esteem  seeks  the  safety  of  the  familiar  and

            undemanding,  and  confining  oneself  to  the  familiar  and


            undemanding   serves   to   weaken   self-   esteem.   The   more

            frequent,  intense  and  lasting  negative  thoughts  and  feelings  a



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