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she is the holder of the key to the economy, the
cheerleader in the village and decoration in the
nagari, the honor of the nagari is in her hands, the
shame of a mother is shame for her village.
In the description of the role of the
mother above, the main educator in adat is the
mother (woman), and the next row is the father,
then after that is the so-called social educator.
2) Social Educator
A father is believed to be an enterprising
person and works hard to earn a living to support
the household economy, therefore he is
described as a wise man. Besides being
responsible for his children, he is also obliged to
guide his nephews. Children are raised with
treasures (low inheritance), nephews are raised
with treasures (high inheritance), therefore a man
has a dual role in Minangkabau. A good father is
one who is able to position his function and
position as a sumando (semenda) ninik mamak
in the family environment of his wife and
children, and on the other hand he is a ninik
mamak in the family environment he comes from