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RANDY PERDUE



               What a difference between the two! Life-giving
               people make you feel better about yourself, but
               they also make you feel better about the world
               and everyone in it. They seem to lift everything
               and leave you with hope. You always feel better
               leaving the company of a life-giving person.

               Life draining people, on the other hand, tend to
               talk about themselves, and they see the world
               from their perspective. You always feel worse
               when  leaving  the  company  of  life  draining
               people!

               Most  of  us  are  not  aware  of  our  real
               motivations. A wealthy person can work hard,
               make money and declare that she is doing it for
               the family. But the family never sees her, and
               when they do she seems angry. They feel like
               they can’t live up to her high expectations. They
               feel like a disappointment to her. Is she really
               doing it for the family? Is it possible there are
               hidden motives? She loves the attention and the
               respect. Maybe she enjoys not having to look
               after her own children.

               On the other side of the coin, a person could
               be  without  a  job,  and  because  of  a  lack  of
               finances, he or she might be forced to live on




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