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Inspirational Women


            hen you meet Debbra    was by herself, knowing that   checked into the E.R., and then   specialty being the Saxophone.
        WSweet, it is easy to see   something felt different, very   I blacked out. Later coming   This was not an easy time for
        what a dynamic individual she   different.            too, I was released from the   her, yet ever visionary and en-
        is.  When she speaks, people    "Helmets weren't required   hospital with a guarantee that   trepreneurial, Debbra moved
        listen; not only due to her de-  at that time. I stood back up   I was fine, that there was no   forward with her life moving to
        livery and positive attitude but   and fell down. I stood back   concussion or anything, but   California to follow her deepest
        because she is right on target   up again and fell down. I got   if something changed to call   passion:  music.
        with what she has to say about   mad and then reached up to   them.  This was the beginning   "Since the accident, I have
        what it takes to be a successful   my head. I had a pear size welt   of a very long detour in my life.   had three seasons, periods,
        business person in today's   on the top right side my head.    I was functioning, but things   where I lost normal function
        economy.                   No blood, but it hurt.  Out of   were not the same."   and mobility.  I couldn't talk,
           Debbra was introduced to                                                       couldn't walk, or remember,
        business early.  Her father, an                                                   and my internal organs started
        entrepreneur, bought his first                                                    shutting down. In 1991 I was
        bowling alley when she was                                                        working in Mission Valley. I
        just four.  He ended up owning                                                    went to take a break, went into
        several bowling alleys through-                                                   the ladies room. When I stood
        out Wisconsin. As family busi-                                                    up, my back snapped. That was
        nesses, there was no question                                                     the beginning of one of the
        that everyone in the household                                                    worst season of my life. I call it
        would contribute.  "I got my                                                      round 2.”
        first paycheck at the age of                                                         During this period, her
        nine making $2.15 an hour.  By                                                    life entailed visiting a wide
        the time I was 17, I was manag-                                                   variety of doctors. She wanted
        ing one of my father's busi-                                                      to know why she couldn't
        nesses. Innovative for the time,                                                  walk. They kept saying it was
        I came up with creative ways to                                                   multiple sclerosis.  Not one
        get more customers and make                                                       to sit quietly on the sidelines
        money.  My dad approached                                                         and let status quo be status
        me about buying one of the                                                        quo, she dug deeper.  After
        companies that year."                                                             a year and a half of medical
           They could not see eye to                                                 Photos by Marcy Browe/www.MarcyBrowe.com  visits, not happy with their
        eye on which one she should                                                       narrow focus of MS, she fired
        buy. She wanted the one in the                                                    her doctors.  "During this time
        city. He felt she should buy one                                                  I met my husband.  He had
        in the smaller town.   Debbra’s                                                   some knowledge of Alterna-
        instinct was that she was                                                         tive Approaches to medicine.
        meant to be on stage sharing                                                      He brought me a ton of books
        her creative side through mu-                                                     from the library, and I started
        sic. She chose college, know-                                                     my research."
        ing she would have her own                                                           Highly sensitive to drugs,
        businesses someday.                                                               Debbra needed a solution
           Just a week before high       Debbra Sweet                                     that did not require the use of
        school graduation her life was                                                    medication.  Trailblazing here,
        impacted in a way she would                                                       they started using alternative
        never have imagined.  "In a mo-  AN INSPIRATION TO US ALL                         methods until they created a
        ment of time, I had a life-alter-                                                 program that worked to im-
        ing experience.  I tried to move         By Judith A. Habert                      prove her condition.  Eventu-
        a brick wall with my head!"                                                       ally reintegrating into ‘normal
        Debbra loved riding her bicycle                                                   life,' yet without an under-
        and one day competed in a                                                         standing as to the cause of the
        bike marathon raising money   sheer will and determination,   She was unaware the   health issue, they married and
        for charity. At the end of the   I got up, stayed up, got to my   accident shocked, locked and   had two children. "My husband
        52-mile event, she was riding   bike and then rode back to the   rocked the very foundation of   and I started a carpet cleaning
        to cool down and swerved to   event to tell the coordinators   her life plan.  She was just 18.   business, and that was a pivotal
        avoid a car coming up behind   what happened and that I was   Leaving her father’s busi-  time for us in our professional
        her.  Instead of colliding with   going to the hospital."   ness she attended college for   career.  He did the jobs, and I
        the car, the bike flipped out   “No one believed it was a   a while with a major in Music   handled the business end of
        from under her. Flying over   serious incident. Even at the   Performance.  Debbra’s musical   things. We are both musicians,
        the handlebars of the bike   hospital, I had to convince   talents include; singing, writ-  so we ran the business by day
        she hit a solid brick wall, head   them to admit me.  Thankful-  ing, singing, writing,and play-  and continued playing music
        first! The car drove on. Debbra   ly they eventually did. I was   ing many instruments, with her   at night.”

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