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towards each other had started to wane. Our expectations had already become inflexible and

uncompromising Demands.”

“You are right Bet. I feel the same. Now we are somewhere between Wish and Need. Our

strong desire for a healthy relationship and unwillingness to upset the applecart has kept our

wishes in check. But this is not sustainable. We will have to understand the needs that are

driving our wishes. Then only can we look for synergies and understand and align our mutual

needs. It will enhance trust and further strengthen our relationship.”

“I am delighted that we can discuss such a sensitive subject so transparently, openly sharing

our feelings and vulnerabilities. Don’t you think it displays the robustness and maturity of our

relationship Dan. Do we still need to align our expectation needs?”

“Yes Bet. I do. This alignment is essential to add the critical third adjective to our

relationship – long lasting or sustainable. None of us would like to go back to where we were

few weeks back – we need robust, mature and sustainable relationship.”

“It could probably also put us on the path to ‘no expectations’ and true friendship.”

“That will be outstanding Dan. I am keen to work towards that. I will have to think about

it some more, but an expectation-free life-long lovely friendship with you seems quite

intriguing.” She gave him a huge smile and winked.

“Where do Chopras fit in this?” asked Betsy.

“I think they may be where we were few weeks back.”