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The incident above shows that, if a father is often seen
by his child as committing disgraceful acts or morals, then his
son will also do the same thing. Conversely, if a good example
is often set by a father to his child, then his son will do the
same. The meaning above means that children's attitudes and
morals are strongly influenced by their environment. In this
case the customary proverb also says:
Parent Kuriak,
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her son's freckles.
The proverb above explains that a child who is born
carries characteristics similar to those of his parents; at least
there is something in common. As the parent kurik says, at
least the child's spots, traditional teachings adhere to the belief
that there is potential or ability that is innate from birth. So a
child is not born as a blank paper without potential, as John
Locke believed with his tabular theory. On the other hand,
Minang custom believes that a child is born with the potential
or innate talent contained within him. As Allah also stated in
the Qur'an Surah Ar-Rum verse 30:
59 Idrus Hakimy, 1000 Proverbs-Petitih Mamang-Bidal Pantun-
Gurindam, (Bandung: Rosdakarya Youth, 1991), 2nd edition cet. 3rd, h. 31,
which means: Kurik (striped color) of the mother, the freckles of the child.