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The incident above shows that, if a father is often seen

               by his child as committing disgraceful acts or morals, then his
               son will also do the same thing. Conversely, if a good example

               is often set by a father to his child, then his son will do the

               same. The meaning above means that children's attitudes and
               morals are strongly influenced by their environment. In this

               case the customary proverb also says:
                                 Parent Kuriak,

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                                 her son's freckles.
                     The  proverb  above  explains  that  a  child  who  is  born

               carries characteristics similar to those of his parents; at least

               there is something in common. As the parent kurik says, at
               least the child's spots, traditional teachings adhere to the belief

               that there is potential or ability that is innate from birth. So a
               child is not born as a blank paper without potential, as John

               Locke believed with  his  tabular theory. On the other hand,
               Minang custom believes that a child is born with the potential

               or innate talent contained within him. As Allah also stated in

               the Qur'an Surah Ar-Rum verse 30:






                  59 Idrus Hakimy, 1000 Proverbs-Petitih Mamang-Bidal Pantun-
           Gurindam, (Bandung: Rosdakarya Youth, 1991), 2nd edition cet. 3rd, h. 31,
           which means: Kurik (striped color) of the mother, the freckles of the child.
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