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WHO IS IT GOING TO BE TODAY?
By Carol Heath
HO WOULD HAVE sive with certain men. These 20 years, this goes for Kevin
Wthought that Harvey men are in some position of Spacey, Ben Affleck, Oliver
Weinstein’s sexual philander- power in various ways. They Stone, Al Franken, Michael
ing would have caused the are either heads of compa- Halperin, Charlie Rose, Matt
apparent domino effect that nies, high in the political food Lauer, the list goes on and un-
is permeating our airwaves? chain, or celebrities of some fortunately on including Andy
Every new day brings a new note. The list grows with each Dick, appropriately named.
allegation by someone in passing day; you never know You may say well there are
power in our government, our if it is going to be some guy different degrees of being in-
appropriate and we shouldn’t
news media, the entertain-
in politics, or running for a
ment industry, large corpora- political seat of some kind. categorize these creeps all
tions and the like. Then there are the high-pro- together. WRONG!
There are several common file entertainment directors, A bully is a bully no matter
threads to these reported ac- producers, actors, or sports what degree of bulliness (I
counts of sexual harassment. figures. And, in what I consid- made up the word) he exhib-
However, before we explore
er rather ludicrous, how about
its. These creeps are just that
this subject any further, I all the high-profile newsmen bullies. They always pick on
someone that is either afraid
that have been accused and
would like to give you the
accepted definition of sexual been unceremoniously fired of losing their job, or not
harassment according to the
Equal Employment Opportu-
nity Commission:
“It is unlawful to harass
a person (an applicant or
employee) because of that
person’s sex. Harassment can
include “sexual harassment” or
unwelcome sexual advances,
requests for sexual favors, and
other verbal or physical ha-
rassment of a sexual nature.”
The definition goes on
to include "either by men
or women," funny thing is I from their jobs. You know, the getting a job; someone that
personally have not heard guys that have been reporting has something to lose, like
anything about a woman these stories. their reputation; you get the
being accused in this foray of The sad thing is this kind message. It shouldn’t matter if
sexual harassment charges. of behavior has been going you are in a position of power
As previously stated there on for years, and the powers and are making big bucks for
seem to be several common that be have known about the people that are protecting
threads to all these alleged it, but have chosen not to you, or that ‘uncle’ we knew
charges. First, they seem to do anything about it. Why? as a kid.
be men. Second, these men Like so many other things in Ah, I now have your full
seem to have some kind of this world, the bottom line is attention. I challenge you to
power. Third, these men have money, M-O-N-E-Y. Bottom find a woman, any woman,
been getting away with this line, these creeps, yes that is that has not been sexually ha-
kind of behavior for some what I said, creeps, have been rassed at some point in their
time. Fourth, these men gen- getting away with so many lives. And, yes that goes back
erally deny the initial charges. things. Sexual inappropriate to when you were a child and
Fourth, it seems that these behavior is just one example that special friend of the fam-
men had reputations of being of when you are in power, any ily may have touched you in
inappropriate. Fifth, appar- kind of power; you can act like your special place. What I am
ently these men have been a creep with absolutely no saying people is that this type
protected for years. I could go consequences whatsoever. of behavior no matter where
on, but I assume by now you I can already sense the it comes from, is not okay, no
are beginning to realize that naysayers; you think I'm matter how minor. It is time
this type of behavior is not exaggerating. Consider this, if for women to stand up and
new or limited to a very few. you will, Weinstein's accusers like a famous movie character,
On the contrary, it seems are now in the high double say "I am mad as hell, and I am
this type of behavior is perva- digits and date back as far as not going to take it anymore!"