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FACEPINPOINT

        stress. When a person is             of loss. Grieving their              feeling of confusion, in a

        angry, their heart rate and          right to privacy, their right  combination of emotional
        blood pressure increase,             to feeling safe, their dig-          anaesthesia, this is known
        releasing high amounts of  nity, pride, and reputation.  as disorganization and

        specific hormones. Now,              Of course, you instantly             dependence. It is charac-
        our amazing biological               thought of the emotional             terized as a period of un-

        systems means that we can  symptoms of grief, be-                         certainty, and a grieving
        adjust to what could be              cause grief is seen mainly  person feels ‘out of touch’
        called “normal” levels of            as an emotion. These                 with their everyday life.

        stress. But, significant lev- symptoms include feel-                      As a result, they may be-
        els of accumulated stress            ing bitter, detached, and            come very dependent on

        can contribute to dis-               the inability to show or             others, or have a desire to
        ease and eventual death.             experience joy. Victims              focus purely on the pres-
        Medical researchers have             may also become preoc-               ent. They can become

        linked the stress response           cupied, consumed by the              demanding, asking those
        of anger to tense muscles,  loss of what they have.                       around them to do things

        heart attack, stroke, hives,  Symptoms themselves can  they would have common-
        asthma, ulcers, migraines,  last days, weeks, or even                     ly done for themselves.
        lower back pain, psoriasis  longer.                                       While trying to cope with

        as well as a shortened life                                               the overwhelming feeling
        expectancy.                          As Victims are unable to             of loss, the victim loses

                                             tolerate the sheer pain if           themselves. They may
        It also takes a toll on emo- they faced reality, some                     seem out of character in
        tional as well as physical           individuals experience               their speech and their ac-

        energy; as a consequence,  what is known as ‘emo-                         tions – but they are strug-
        internalizing anger can              tional anaesthesia.’ Feel-           gling to cope with their

        have a harmful effect on             ing nor happy or sad, just           loss of privacy, safety, dig-
        physical, mental and emo- numb from emotions, and  nity, pride, and reputation.
        tional health. It affects            in some cases confused.

        relationships, personal,             Victims can react to this            Another coping mecha-
        professional, and the rela-          in many different ways;              nism is intellectualization,

        tionship that the individual  they may sigh and cry, or                   which of course, is all to
        has with themselves.                 be unable to cry and with-           do with their mind, this
                                             draw instead.                        incredible gift that we all

        Grief may follow. An                                                      have. Intellectualization
        individual feeling a sense           Let us go back to that               is the way that a griev-


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